Why Brands are Dying and Or Dead

I get a lot of flak on almost every phrase that comes out of my mouth. If we ever meet, trust me, I will run my mouth on the smallest and largest subjects. Most of the time these tirades are driven by "things" or people that directly infect my life. All of this, babble boils down to one...little comment I let go today: "Socail marketing is slowly killing brands." This promptly opened up a literal shit storm from all of the people in our office. I thought perhaps, I would share with you why there is an inherent need to understand, embrace, and kiss your brand goodbye.
Social media / marketing / spanking / loving, whatever you want to call it WILL and IS crumbling your brand. Don't get me wrong, the actual act is not what is "softening" your brand, it is the people who participate. Every, and you can take this to the bank, every time your brand is talked about it is being modified, changed, morphed, mutated, etc. These people are talking every day about brands, but do you think they have gone through Brand X's crash course on it's image, history, lifestyle? Yeah, doubt it. Don't get me wrong, these modifications are usually good, however; they probably never line up with what your traditional marketing strategy desires (and really why should they). You can grasp on to the brand all you want, although; at the end of the day, your brand is going to be represented by word of mouth, people, and certainly not you. You can try and put forth a ton of money, man power, time, and effort to block this leak but, why not embrace it? Take the same people who are eroding your brand and turn them into advocates. People, who simply can't stop talking about your brand because they realize how unbelievably great it is. People, who are always talking about your brand no matter the situation. Really, how unbelievably cool would this be for all you business owners / entrepreneurs out there? Take your old ass brand image, tone, idea and close the door on that chapter, welcome to something different, way more fun, and 100% more effective.